The Best Places to Elope

An detailed guide helping you decide the best place to elope in the Pacific Northwest


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Sure, you can elope just about anywhere in the United States. These days elopements can encompass so much more than running off to Vegas for a weekend. However, if you're really looking to up the ante you won't want to sleep on the hidden gems of the Pacific Northwest. With everything from high volcanic deserts, snowcapped mountain peaks, rich lush rainforests, to rugged coastlines - you're certainly not limited to one landscape, even in a single day. It's clear why the Pacific Northwest is easily the best place to elope. Whether you're considering eloping in Washington or eloping in Oregon, you won't want to miss out on these helpful tips. 

Where do you even begin?

When you're just getting started planning your elopement, it can be hard to know what decision to make first. Do you choose your date, your photographer, or your location? All of these go hand in hand. This means there's no wrong place to start. 

How to pick a date and location

You may first consider whether you share any important dates which hold meaning for you. This could be the day you met, a significant day to your family, possibly a day when a life changing decision was made, or maybe it's a numbers game… 5.20.2025 anyone?

Or… Should you not hold any importance for one date over another, take a moment to observe your vision for your wedding day. Maybe you see snowcapped mountains, or golden larches and high alpine lakes, or a beautiful coastline at sunset.

You might not know your vision right away and that's okay. Sit down with your partner, put on your favorite music, and maybe chat about your favorite memories and places you've traveled.  What makes you feel ALIVE. What inspires you. In this case, you'll want to consider what time of year best suits your vibe. 

Regardless of how you choose your date and location, keep the following in mind:

  •  Not all locations are accessible all four seasons. This especially applies to mountain locations with a high elevation. Even in June and early July you may face snow.

  • We’re “sleepless in Seattle” (and Portland) because it rains… a lot. Yes, that “it rains 9 months out of the year” thing isn’t an exaggeration. Plan for sun, but don’t bet on it and always have a backup plan.

  • Beautiful destinations are prime real estate on weekends. To embrace the intimacy of your elopement, you may want to consider a weekday.

  • Be prepared to spend a portion of your day in the dark. No really. Dreamy breathtaking vibes and stunning portraits are created at sunrise and sunset. This means you may find yourself hiking before the sun rises or after the sun sets. 

How do you choose your photographer?

While there are many factors that play a part in choosing the best photographer for YOU, I cannot stress enough the importance of finding a photographer that you vibe with. Why? You’re going to be spending a lot of time with your photographer on your elopement day. They might even be the only other person in attendance besides your partner. Once you have an idea on the general area (even if it’s just the PNW as a whole), choose a photographer local to that area. Not only will they be the most familiar with locations and permit requirements, they’ll often have the inside on the best travel tips and reputable vendors.

It’s time to spill the tea…

As someone who has spent her entire life living in the PNW, no matter how much I travel, I just can't get enough. I'm here to share with you some local secrets on just a few of my favorite elopement locations around Washington and Oregon. I'll go into exactly what you can expect, few cautions, and the best seasons to travel so you can make a better decision on where to elope.

 

Best places to elope in Washington

 
  1. The North Cascades


Season: May - October

Terrain: Big badass jagged mountains, alpine meadows, and deep blue lakes

Nearby towns: Winthrop, Bellingham, Stehekin 

Random fact: This region houses two hidden mountain retreats accessible only by boat


Let me introduce you to the Banff National Park of Washington State. This may be the most forgotten National Park, however it certainly deserves the top spot on your bucket list.  Sitting on the border of Canada, the North Cascades National Park lies about 3 hours north of Seattle. This region is primarily reached via Highway 20 and Mount Baker Highway. With elevations climbing far over 5,000 feet, these highways typically close during November with no reopening in sight until May/June. 

While you can certainly drive straight through this region making scenic viewpoint stops along the way, discovering the real beauty of these mountains requires a bit of extra work. If you're prepared for jaw dropping beauty and high elevation hiking 7,000 feet above sea level, the North Cascades will not disappoint. Although, for a more laid back wedding day, you might consider Ross Lake Resort or visiting the hidden town of Stehekin on Lake Chelan- each accessible only by boat. Don’t want to make the drive? No worries, you can catch a seaplane right out of Seattle.

 

2. San Juan Islands

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Season: Year-round

Terrain: Archipelago full of old growth forests

Nearby towns: Anacortes, Friday Harbor, Eastsound 

Random fact: 172 islands and reefs make up this archipelago, with the four following islands being accessible by ferry: San Juan, Orcas, Shaw and Lopez Island. 


Really live into the vibes of the PNW by hopping on a ferry or a seaplane and find solitude in the San Juan Islands. If you're lucky, you might even see a pod of Orcas on your way there. Although definitely check out a kayak or whale watching tour if you're after some Orca action. The San Juan Islands are the perfect host for a peaceful and intimate elopement for any season. You can certainly expect October - April to be more cold and wet however. Explore the local farms, old growth forests, and even the tallest mountain in the archipelago for the ultimate view. The islands offer a variety of different stay options including camping, glamping, unique vacation rentals, and historic hotels. Consider ending your day with some fresh seafood or even a relaxing spa session. 

 

3. The Central Cascades


Season: Year-round

Terrain: The land of giant granite mountains and endless alpine lakes

Nearby towns: North Bend, Cle Elum, Leavenworth

Random fact: The nearby Bavarian-inspired town of Leavenworth has been voted a top 10 must visit Christmas destination on multiple occasions.


With four main ski-areas (arguably eight total) situated 1 - 2 hours from Seattle, countless nordic-ski/snowshoe/snowmobile trails, surrounded by a few quaint mountain towns… you can count this as a top winter elopement destination. Two major mountain pass highways also make this region easily accessible. Book yourself a traditional log cabin or a more modern ski lodge for the most cozy mountain escape. 

As snow begins to melt away in June, this region offers endless hiking for all skill levels. There is no short list of activities in the Central Cascades with everything from fishing, camping, kayaking, paddle boarding, horseback riding, to even wine and beer tasting. The short drive from the city makes it easy to begin your day on the mountain and end it at one of Seattle's top restaurants.

 

4. Mount Rainier National Park


Season: July - Early October

Terrain: Iconic glacier capped volcano surrounded by wildflower rich subalpine meadows

Nearby towns: Enumclaw, Packwood

Random fact: When you hear a Washingtonian say "the mountain is out", we mean the clouds finally parted in Washington and Rainier is visible again. 


Standing at a whopping 14.410 feet above sea level, it's downright near impossible to miss this Washington icon- that is, as long as it isn't hiding behind the clouds. While this national park can be accessed year round via the Paradise entrance (expect LOTS of snow), the real excitement happens when the snow finally melts away in July to reveal the most gorgeous subalpine meadows full of wildflowers and wildlife. There's undeniable beauty at every turn in this park, it's something you just cannot fully comprehend until you see in person. No hiking required in this park, although the trails are irresistible.

At a 2-3 hour drive from Seattle, you won't find any nearby cities. Should you wish to stay as close to Rainier as possible, camping is available both within and outside of the park.  In addition to a handful of cabins located a short drive from the park entrance, check out the nearby Crystal Mountain Ski Area for a unique glamping experience- also home to Washington's highest restaurant just a short scenic gondola ride away. 

 

5. Olympic National Park


Season: Year round

Terrain: Glacier capped mountains, mossy rainforest, rugged ocean coastline

Nearby towns: Forks, Port Angeles, Sequim

Random fact: The Olympic Peninsula is home to the both the rainiest and sunniest places in Washington state


Grab your raincoat and boots, because it's going to be a wet one. To really get into the PNW van-life spirit, Seattle has a number of van rental companies; this is an excellent option to really live as a nomad and easily experience the whole park. To access the Olympic Peninsula, catch a ferry out of Seattle or make the couple hour drive south to "drive around" as we say here in Washington. You'll find everything from glacier capped mountains, alpine meadows, rich lush rainforests full of mossy cedar giants and waterfalls, hot springs, deep blue lakes, and an incredible rocky coastline where the Olympic glory final meets the Pacific Ocean. No matter where you choose to stay, you'll need a few days to fully take in the stunning beauty of this park. 

 

6. Mount St. Helens


Season: May - October

Terrain: Volcanic 

Nearby towns: Longview, Toutle

Random fact: The 1980 eruption of Mount St Helens was the most deadly and destructive volcanic event in United States history.


This beauty is actually closer to Portland, Oregon than it is Seattle at a whopping 3 hour drive. At only a 1.5 hour drive from Portland you could choose to make this granola-life-loving capital your home base. Despite the environmental wipeout that occurred as a result of the lahar during the 1980 eruption, this region has recovered with a vengeance and it is GORGEOUS. I would say the eruption is a distant memory but Mount St Helens posseses a very distinctly recognizable crater. This IS still a closely monitored active volcano. Explore the lava tubes and canyons created by this volcanic wonder. Don't forget your headlamp! This area is full of hiking, fishing, camping, kayaking, paddle boarding, heck even catch the zip line tours while you're here. 

 

Best Places to Elope in Oregon

 
  1. Columbia River Gorge


Season: Year round

Terrain: Jagged cliffs and jaw dropping waterfalls 

Nearby towns: Portland, Hood River

Random fact: The Columbia River Gorge serves as a border between Washington and Oregon running up to 4,000 ft deep.


The Columbia River Gorge is incredibly unique and unlike anywhere else here in the Pacific Northwest. Take in the countless waterfalls that plunge down the basalt cliffs into the Columbia River as it cuts its way through the Cascades before spilling into the ocean. Despite a wide array of trails to choose from, this is another location where hiking is not required to experience the beauty. There is no shortage of local wine, beer, cider and farm to table dining in this region. Seriously though, as a foodie myself, take my word when I say you won't want to miss this. Book a stay in Portland, just an hour drive away, or Hood River, the cutest town nestled in the shadow of Mount Hood. Expect PNW weather, although it's low elevation makes this destination an excellent elopement location year round. Keep an eye on the winds that whip through the gorge which do occasionally close the highway running directly along the Columbia River. 

 

2. Oregon Coast


Season: Year round

Terrain: Sandy beaches and coastal cliffs

Nearby towns: Astoria, Seaside, Manzanita, Pacific City, Lincoln City, Newport, Florence, Coos Bay… the list goes on

Random fact: There are 363 miles of Oregon coastline and every inch of it is free and public. 


Unlike Washington, when I say visit the Oregon Coast, I mean the whole damn thing- Washington border to California border. Extend your stay after your elopement and take a road trip along highway 101. It's no wonder the Goonies was filmed here in Astoria. The Oregon Coast has an exceptional PNW mood with its lighthouses, sandy beaches, tide pools, caves, jagged cliffs and sand dunes. This region is certainly chillier than the warmer beaches of California; don’t let that keep you from this epic experience. If you've narrowed down your elopement location to the Oregon Coast but don't know exactly where, reach out. I have your back and am happy to help you decide. Having lived only 30 minutes from the Oregon Coast for a handful of years, I'll share my insider secrets. 

 

3. Mount Hood

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Season: Year round

Terrain: Snowcapped mountain surround by old growth forests and alpine meadows

Nearby towns: Portland

Random fact: With over 4,000 feet of vertical drop, the Timberline Ski Area on Mount Hood is the only ski area in the United States open 10 months out of the year. 


Mount Hood offers two completely different experiences. In the winter months, between it's multiple ski areas and snowshoe trails, you can plan for a dreamy snow filled elopement.  As the snow melts in June, this region is full of hiking, camping, fishing, kayaking, and paddle boarding with abundant views. On a clear day you'll have views of the other volcanic giants in the area including Mount St. Helens, Mount Adams, Mount Rainer, and Mount Jefferson. Choose either to camp, book a nearby cabin, or with a 1.5 hour drive from Portland you could even choose to stay in the city. Portland is a city full of "character". You'll see why the city's slogan is "Keep Portland Weird". Give it a chance though, as it's full of fun quirky bars and damn good food. 

 

4. Bend, Oregon

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Season: Year round

Terrain: Mountains, high volcanic desert, red rock canyons

Nearby towns: Redmond, Sunriver, Sisters 

Random fact: A logging town turned lager town, you'll find a different kind of trail running through Bend. The Bend Ale Trail will connect you to 30 different breweries.


The stoke is high and the hype is real. While Bend, Oregon itself is a town, the opportunities that lie in the area is why this place is an outdoor adventurist's dream. Nestled in the foothills of the Cascades, you'll have easy access to the Jefferson Wilderness, Three Sisters Wilderness, and high volcanic desert. Activities you could do on your elopement day? The answer: everything. Think hiking, backpacking, camping, kayaking, ATV tours, skiing/snowboarding, snowmobiling, nordic skiing, snowshoeing, golfing, beer and wine tasting… the list goes on forever. Did I mention Bend is an incredibly dog friendly town as well? Don’t hesitate to bring your furry friend along too- after all, they are a part of the family. At over a 3 hour drive from Portland, definitely plan to stay in Bend or one of the nearby towns.

 

5. Crater lake national park

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Season: Mid June - October 

Terrain: Volcanic crater

Nearby towns: Sunriver, Bend, Klamath Falls

Random fact: The eruption of Mount Mazama is believed to have been 75 times greater than that of Mount St. Helens. 


In winter, you do have the option to snowshoe into the park- otherwise, plan on waiting until summer to access this beauty. The Rim Village at Crater Lake National Park sits 7,100ft above sea level which means even June visitors can expect to see snow. If planning a June elopement, take note only half the park may be accessible at this time.  

Don't rely on a photograph to understand the depth of the blue waters that is Crater Lake. Even in person, the Kool-Aid blue is unbelievable. While you can enjoy the view from the rim of the crater, there are numerous trails within the park that allow you to further explore the thousands of years old volcanic activity that once occurred. Only one trail will lead you down to the water where you can catch a scheduled boat tour. This park is a bit more secluded; plan to either camp here or make the 1.5 hour drive from Klamath Falls or Bend.

 

6. The Wallowas


Season: June - September

Terrain: Mountains, lakes, plains 

Nearby towns: Joseph

Random fact: Between the Wallowa's close resemblance of the European Alps and the lush green valleys, Joseph, Oregon has earned the name "The little Switzerland of America". 


If you're really after an intimate experience for your elopement day, consider making the 5-6 hour drive from Portland. The longer drive makes for much quieter trails in the Wallowa Mountains. This little region has very rightfully landed its spot on the "7 Wonders of Oregon". The mountain range, surrounded by lush green plains and farmland, is absolutely stunning offering both moderate day hikes and longer backpacking opportunities. Find a quiet stay in the quaint town of Joseph and head to Wallowa Lake for some kayaking or paddle boarding. If you're looking for a view without the effort, catch the tram here up to 8,000 ft above sea level and grab a beer at the top. 

 

So what’s next?

Choosing your elopement location can be a weighty decision, after all this will be the location you can return to year to year to celebrate your wedding anniversary. If anything, I don’t want you stress. I’m here to help you make an informed no-rush decision. There’s no need to have it all figured out just yet. Although if you already have it narrowed down to at least the Pacific Northwest, I’ll be thrilled to send more information your way.

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